You can be happy for someone just for the fact that they are happy. You don’t have to agree with their choices or their life path to be able to be happy that someone is happy with their own life.
Choosing frames for my glasses is hard because I don’t want to look like an old lady, but I don’t want to look like I’m trying too hard to look young. Wah wah wah *eyeroll* stupid problems.
So you need a time frame?